Victor Alsén, Profile of a Tinder Dating Psycho
Below is precisely the dating psycho profile specific to Victor Alsén, a Swedish Clarinetist/Musician:
1. Over-the-top flattery
He seems to be all over you very quickly, complimenting every single atom you possess. You are almost the most special person he has ever seen and you are purely perfect! This hyper-complimentary behavior get you hooked and obsessed over him while he gains your trust.
The truth is if you are truly that special and he felt it head to toe as he said, then why he’d suddenly forget you and moved on easily without remorse?
2. Excessive chatting
Very quickly, he just can’t stop chatting with you for hours each day with great enthusiasm. You might be over flattered how much attention he is giving to you. In no time and before you know, you start getting addicted to the chat frenzy and he had you hooked. If at any moment, he easily pulls away his effort and reduces the amount of time he is lending to you, you are rest assured to feel anxious and lost.
3. An enthusiastic, likeable personality
He can’t be more excited in talking and meeting with you, making you feel really flattered that you are such a great person who has caught his attention. He always say nice things, whether he mean it or not. He is a great talker who always knows how to maneuver the conversation in the direction of what you want to hear. He seems care about you. While in reality, he cares about himself most and he use this superficial “care” to make himself feel better about using you and fooling, lying to you.
4. Build you up with bigger and quicker than normal promises
He will first try to get the first hand information of what you are looking for. If you are seeking a relationship, he’ll tell you that is what he is looking for as well. He will start building up the hope of a relationship between you two. He asks you to be exclusive with him and relationship will come later once you get to know more about each other.
The truth is relationship is the last thing on his mind but he made an empty promise to hook you up so he can get what he wants for himself. Most of all, you don’t even know why he starts talking about relationship so early because you aren’t ready for that yet. He was just trying to get you hooked so you are not going anywhere else.
5. The unexpected fade and pulling away
He made you fall into his trap and probably fall for him with the previous steps. Then for no obvious reasons, he starts fading away. This could be one or all of the following three reasons:
a. It has gotten to the point he has to fulfill his relationship promise before he can proceed any further. He would want to bail out if there is not much chance of getting what he wants before he deliver his promise.
b. If you have unfortunately already start falling for him, you might no longer be a challenge on his dish and he likes the thrills of hard to get.
c. He is interested in pursuing new targets and probably already started cheating on you.
6. A player and cheater in deceit: a naïve relationship guy
He seems way too naïve. But regardless he gained your trust to be a genuine person. Player would be the last label you want to stamp on him.
You probably wouldn’t believe this naïve guy who asked you prematurely to be exclusive would cheat on you. Your 6th sense alarm comes off and you start getting nervous. He will deny everything however many times you question him and accuse you for not trusting him.
7. Horrible user catering only to his own benefits and needs, drags you into emotional disaster and then discard when you are no longer needed
You did everything for him, not because you like him that much yet but you did a favor for him because he seems so into you. He wants you to wait for him for a lengthy amount of time. You did it for him knowing it is going to be a very daunting, difficult and painful task. You put yourself to suffer loneliness and emotional dragging while waiting so he can focus on his career and you hope the best results for him by not interrupting. It turns out he is using those time cheating on you; hence he can’t contact you often.
You did everything for him to only get cold brutality back while he builds hatred toward you for no apparent reasons. And he is p****d that you suspected him. He responds by giving you more emotional torture.
This user gives you abysmal treatment that put you into lengthy period of depression and fear, while you are suffering yourself in order to give him what he wants. It is truly a terrible experience!
8. He can quickly put you in a pedestal; and in a whimsical second, he can throw you to the ground
With no fault of your own but his own psycho mentality and improper treatment toward you. He discards you with no respect. Suddenly before things even officially ended, he put you to a lower shelf as he has a busy life now with his career and friends. You are simply not important any more and his time is way too precious to spend on you.
You don’t deserve a dime of this. You put yourself to suffer and did everything for him to only get terrible treatment back. No appreciation, but only what he wants the best for himself.
9. Pathological lying
Victor Alsén will always say nice things in front of you, even it is not true and he doesn’t mean it. You can sometimes catch it when his action apparently doesn’t match his words and he is not doing what he says he will do.
Most words coming out of his mouth will not materialize. An overly nice guy is toxic, misleading and a waste of your time. He is also “intelligent” enough to know how to play games and be deceitful.
10. Distant and non-returned messages
This happened not long after the cheating confrontation. If you have gotten to this stage, he is thinking about breaking off with you. He has arrived at this serious stage not because he doesn’t like you anymore; not because he figured out you are not someone for him; or he can’t commit due to long distance and reality reasons. He will also accuse you for certain mistakes to make you feel guilt and realize it is you that made him stop liking you any more.
The biggest reason is he realized you might figure out he has cheated on you soon. He is fearful and he needs to take action before you land the answer so it will seem to be your fault or there are objective reasons.
Often time players will break it off once you confronted or suspected they are cheating. They will try to do it before you find out more about what they are doing so as to cover it up. You can be rest assured if a guy would bring up the topic of breaking up himself, most likely a new hookup has already been landed or is in the picture.
11. Emotion manipulator
He trapped you in his emotion love net but then pulls away. His behaviors are suspicious and he might be cheating or pursuing other hookups. He is giving you a cold shoulder. All these made you feel anxious, fearful and insecure. You start wondering if you are just such a person with no self-confidence and have jealous issues.
It is never you. It is him. Your instincts are right and that is exactly how you should feel: he is distant, he is not giving you the feeling back and he is cheating. You are left struggling emotionally and suffer without knowing what happened or what you have done wrong.
12. An ugly and disgusting loser
He will use you and string you up till the next option comes along who he also use to move on easily for himself with no hard feelings. In lightning speed, you are someone from the Stone Age. He put you in a mess and leaves you in the mess without assuming any responsibility. It is him who is the best and only interest he should care about. Whatever you have to go through because of him is none of his business. In the end when he views you as no longer useful (in his own psycho mind; not a real reflection of your value), he throws you away like a trash, stomping on you like a doormat and won’t even lend you any respect.
Sarcastically with a dating psychos profile, Victor Alsén’s loser tactics of getting over you and forgetting someone he shouldn’t forget so quickly is deemed a failed mission.
Most of the time, he lands cheap Walmart/Costco’s look hookups who has low self-esteem and self-respect. They will consent to be used as temporary play toys and hang on to whatever they can get from them. Some bear such low value systems that they won’t even figure it out after being used. As mainly a hookup seeker, he is pretty content with whatever downgrade or selection comes along the way.
Victor Alsén justified his own ugly behavior by claiming there is nothing wrong when both parties consent to have no strings attached s*x and he even have “feelings” for them. The so-called “feelings for your hookups” is probably the most disgusting part of all, which he uses to make himself feel justified. Deep down he doesn’t even value or respect his hookups, no matter what nice words come out of his mouth that he has no judgement. The double standard is he will not think low of himself for doing this.
13. Narcissist and lack of guilt
After everything he has put you through to make you suffer tremendous emotional and time loss, he might make some light apology that stays at the surface level. He is not shamed, he is not guilty, and he lacks empathy.
Even at this right moment, he thinks the most about himself and what could be the best for himself. Whatever you have gone through due to him is already done. Now he needs to take care of his own business, aka his own welfare and benefit.
Disclaimer: Victor Alsén is definitely going to claim the above is slander, rumor from some crazy people who wrote it to attack him out of jealousy or hatred. Unfortunately everything is written truthfully, whether Victor Alsén likes it or not.