Tom Kavana, New York

I am writing this to hopefully save another woman from the anguish that Tom Kavana will ultimately coldly and callously instill in your life. He is a narcissist. He preys on the online dating sites. He will only seek out attractive smart and financially secure women. He will be charming and attentive.he will shower you with sweet texts every morning call you every night and start a relationship quickly. You will feel like you struck gold. He will shower you with attention on Facebook. ..he will passionately be unable to keep his hands off you sexually and he will take beautiful photographs of you at all times. He will introduce you to friends.take you to AA meetings and he will tell you you’re the first woman he has done a lot of things with. .. then as the relationship grows you will realize he isn’t very sincere he wants attention on his photography he starts to borrow money. He dominates conversations he talks down to you he stops having s*x or he performs s*x as a duty and makes you feel devalued. He will continue just enough intimacy with his hand on your leg while watching movies holding your hand in public. ..kissing you hello and goodbye but it will feel like something is wrong or missing and when you start to catch on he will tell you you’re his girl and he only wants you. He will continue to shop online while he is with you and be with other women even though he gives you free range to his home and you spend a lot of time together. If he feels you are catching on he will end it without any warning and he will come up with some reason. He will not do it compassionately and he will cut you off completely without any answers. Please please be wary…this is not like a normal relationship and it is horrific to deal with. I can only suggest researching relationships with a narcissist. ..check the dating sites to see his activity i wish i had.he leaves his phone out unlocked check it for everything i wish I had. Be prepared before you fall….once you do its a horrible ending.

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  1. All I can say is beware. He is a recovered alcoholic but not really. He uses his AA for his narcissistic feed for attention. He does not have one food intention although he falsely portrays he does. He is a liar about everything. He is a cheater and will never stop. He will love bomb you like no other and if you have one ounce of need for daily affection or attention he will jump all over it. He has one intention only and it is to have you support him. He does not date AA members because once they found out who he really is his ” I am g*d to everyone” world would crumble. Do the research on narcissism he is the definition. Dig a little on facebook. Talk to the ex girlfriends…you can see who they are if you dig a little. He is financially ruined. He is a horrible father. He was physically abusive to one ex wife and used the second one for money. He will tell you he only wants you and not a player but do the digging…he is online looking for more and he will casually brush it off as silly. If you expose him for ever being wrong or doing wrong he will explode in anger . Do not give him money just run and dont look back.

  2. And most importantly he will tell you he is friends with his exes. He is NOT! and that long term relationship he talks about was with a married woman. His short term live in relationship he cheated on. Everyone after, cheated on. All were wonderful women that fell prey to this horrible man.

  3. over it. He has one intention only and it is to have you support him. He does not date AA members because once they found out who he really is his ” I am g*d to everyone” world would crumble. Do the research on narcissism he is the definition. Dig a little on facebook. Talk to the ex girlfriends…you can see who they are if you dig a little. He is financially ruined. He is a horrible father. He was physically abusive to one ex wife and used the second one for money. He will tell you he only wants you and not a player but do the digging…he is online looking for more and he will casually brush it off as silly. If you expose him for ever being wrong or doing wrong he will explode in anger . Do not give him money just run and dont look back.

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