This pos started messaging my wife of 10 yrs on facebook. At 1st she plainly told him she was married. But, he insisted on meeting up. After a few weeks she agreed. Yes just as much her fault. Todd knew I worked out of town and used it to his advantage, even had the nerve to come to my house, and have s*x in my car! She broke it off with him several times but he always hounded her to meet up just one more time. He has 3 teenage kids of his own that he doesn’t take care of, he lived with his mother (he’s 47) up until she died. He can’t nor will he ever maintain a steady job, if he was a REAL man he would be at work and wouldn’t have time to mess around with married women. Oh btw, he was in a relationship with someone else also and of course I told her. He is a low life piece of white trash. After my wife came clean to me about the affair she let me read all the fb messages between them and I must say he’s a real sad individual.