My relationship with Michael progressed very quickly. Within just three months of talking he moved from out-of-state to be with me. He told me he wanted to marry me, have children with me, and have a future with me. I hung onto every word.
Things started to go to s**t just as quickly. One of his “friends” who admitted to being in love with him messaged him one night and they were fighting; she told him she always found it funny that when he and I were first dating, prior to his moving here, he would lay in bed with and make out with her. He denied this, of course.
Within the months we did not live together he constantly hung out with other women, would lie to me about where he was, and upon further searching through his facebook (after the face) I found that he was leading some these girls on and definitely cheating on me with them.
He hit on his sister’s boyfriend’s brother’s girlfriend’s friend who is only 17 years old, saying he wanted to spank her and see her a*s.
He was talking to a woman who lived down by his sister in Tennessee, telling her he was obsessed with her, and told her and some other people that he would be moving down there as soon as he had money for a bus ticket. He told people this for nearly a month before I kicked him out; and the whole time he was still sleeping in my bed, telling me he loved me and wanted to work on things.
He spoke to other women CONSTANTLY, and usually inappropriately. He knew this made me uncomfortable and did nothing to resolve the situation.
Before we hooked up I was honest with him and told him that I had previously contracted vaginal Herpes, and he had no issue with that. Turns out he didn’t mind because he has them himself; but he’ll never admit to that.
I also knew from his previous ex that he had Hepatitis C, but he never disclosed that information to me on his own. Realistically, if he doesn’t get it taken care of soon, he will die.
He also told me he was sober from heroin but he relapsed at least four times that I’m sure of while we were together.
He has three children by three different mothers, and currently has nothing to do with any of his children. He refuses to even work on the books because he doesn’t want to have child support taken out of his checks.
His youngest child’s mother was choked and had things thrown at her by him when she was pregnant. I have seen copies of the police reports (which contained testimony from two witnesses), and in them he admits everything to the officers. She currently has a restraining order against him because when things started to go south I messaged her for advice and she warned me about him. I told him some of the things she said and he messaged and threatened both her and her boyfriend.
Michael was adopted by rich people and has been given a free ride his entire life. He is 36 f*****g years old and is going nowhere. He very obviously used me for a roof over his head and food in his belly; this is apparently just what he does. In the six months that I knew him he moved at least 6 times, jumping from place to place to whomever was willing to take care of him and put up with his s**t.
There is much, much more, but please, if you come across Michael James Barnabas Bergin–run. He is an emotional vampire; a sociopath–I gave him everything I could have, without question. I believed every word he said although I was warned by so many people prior to us getting together. He has left me a wreck, and I can assure he will do the same to you.