I met Michael Gayler on POF. I took my time talking with Michael for about 6 weeks before I agreed to meet him and have lunch together. Everything went well and he began to love bombing me. I was so caught up with him being so attentive. He wanted to be with me all the time. It seemed too good to be true, and yes…. it was. Shortly after I was emotionally attached he began saying and behaving different. That was the beginning of the end. He was still pursuing women on dating sites. He had an on again of again girl friend he was seeing the whole time we were together. When warning signs couldn’t be ignored any longer…. I would ask him questions and he would get defensive…. start putting me down. It was so confusing. It turns out he is a malignant narcissist. The is a personality disorder that no one wants… these people lack integrity, loyalty, empathy, and can not tell the truth. He enjoyed being deceitful and cheating on me and saying hurtful things. He mistakenly called me while talking to his kids (8 10 year olds) about who he was going to let got… he was comparing me and his ex girlfriend (never stopped seeing her when we were together) and he said sherry doesn’t have money for Hawaii. She don’t have money for anything. Needless to say I he is not a quality human being. He is teaching his kids deceitful ways, To not be loyal and honest, how to use and manipulate people for gain. So think twice before you give heart to someone who doesn’t have one.