I have 3 boys by this deadbeat/doner!! We have been divorced for almost 5 years and he has seen my boys maybe 20 times in the 5 years!! As of right now he hasn’t seen them in 1 year, doesn’t call, no gifts on birthdays or holidays, etc. He is only supposed to pay $700 per month for all 3 of my boys and he is more than capable of paying, but he just waits until they are gonna suspend his license and then pays the minimum!! He raises a child that doesn’t belong to him and had ANOTHER child with his new wife (who is was sleeping with while I was pregnant with my 3rd son. I’ve known this b***h her whole life, watched her grow up across the st from me) and she don’t give 2 f***s that’s she’s with a man that doesn’t take care of his kids smdh!! She’s worse then he is!! She has a child by a man that WANTS to see his child and pays his child support on time every month and she keeps her child away from the dad and makes her child call my deadbeat baby daddy “dad” and if the kid don’t call him dad, they punish the kid smh!! Just recently I filed for modification of child support and since He’s been served with the papers he rides past my youngest sons bus stop and tries to pick him up and take him to school smdh…my baby barely knows this man!! I’ve NEVER kept him away from my boys, I NEVER speak ill of this deadbeat to my boys bc I want them to form their own opinion of him!! He sells drugs, sells cars, has rental properties, and his own business, but can’t support the children he made?!?! His wife is so f*****g insecure that she doesn’t mind him not getting his kids so he doesn’t have to deal with me!! The b***h needs to realize I don’t want her husband, I had that f*g for 15 yrs, I handed him to her!! I offered to go through her so he could see my boys, this way there was NO EXCUSES!! That didn’t work out either!! Nothing works for a mfer that doesn’t want to be a father to his kids!! I will NEVER understand it!! My oldest son plays football and he’s been to 1 or 2 games and he’s played since he was 4! He has brought dudes to my house where my children lay their head to fight my boyfriend Smfh!! He talked about my boyfriend and I so bad to my children the very few times he did see them!! He kicked my oldest son out of his house one time and he NEVER wanted to go back again!! This deadbeat has had a horse shoe up his a*s for years and I’m hoping it finally falls out when we go back to court this time!! He is a cheater, abuser, and a all around not a nice person at all!! He’s done his best to try and make it look like my fault that he doesn’t see my boys, and honestly there has been nothing but space and opportunity for him to be a father and he chose NOT to be!! My boys are 13,6,&5 and believe me I’ve struggled with no help from him, but we made it through and my boys appreciate me and everything I’ve been through and done to raise them!! Every one of them are fantastic boys, honor roll every quarter in school, very respectful, and they love their momma so much!! This deadbeat should have his b***s cutt off bc he doesn’t deserve to have other children when he doesn’t take care of the ones he already has!! I’m no longer angry bc my boys have a great man that raises them!! This deadbeat has missed out on being apart of 3 of the greatest little boys lives and it is his LOSS!!