An attractive and smart woman in Rochester, NY has posted her photo and bio as Ayla4316 on Match.com, stating that she is a 50 year old widow, seeking a man as a date or friend. She has a lot to say about her late husband and their personal and professional life together. Her story does not add up. This woman is married, not widowed. Although she chooses not to live with her husband, they see each other almost daily. She and the late “husband” discussed in her profile had a long relationship, but never married, and separated many years before his death. She has also mis-stated her age (actually 59), education, and college attended. This woman has previously used the Match.com username Livewell8. Ayla4316 and her husband do not have an “open marriage” and he’s not a willing participant in her deception. She’s a good person who is making bad choices!